Saturday, 11 December 2010

Feeling Sad aand Cross with God


I am feeling sad because a good man died. My brother-in-Laws brother died on Friday he was just 59 years old, a happy family man who loved his wife, children and grandchildren, a man who was a hard worker who put his family first not a drinker or a gambler just a genuine nice bloke. Two years ago he started to feel a little ill and it took the Dr's months to find out what was wrong with him, in the end he was diagnosed with Liver disease and since then has been waiting for a transplant, they also discovered he had a small hole in his heart which had always been there. He has been on and off the list for a transplant one set of Dr's saying he had to have his heart op before they would give him a liver the 2nd lot saying he could'nt have the heart op until his liver was transplanted and so it went on until on Thursday night he suffered a mild heart attack, he was taken to hospital and his family were told to pray, they sat with him and chatted and joked and spoke of happier times to come but sadly Ian died and his family are heartbroken, shocked, angry and confused. They now have to learn to live without him and this makes them terribly sad and it makes me very cross with God for taking this good good man .

9 comments:

Diane said...

I'm sorry, Jilly. This is hard, very hard.
Blessings,
Diane

Angela said...

This is so hard - especially at this time of the year, when the rest of the world is celebrating. You are all in my thoughts and prayers x

Piece by Piece said...

So sorry for your loss.
Patricia

silversewer said...

I am so sorry to hear this Jill, my sincere sympathy gors to you and his family ay this very sad time, its very hard to loose someone but worse just before Christmas.

Take care,

Love and hugs,

Anne.
xxxx

Jane said...

It's very sad to lose a loved one, especially at a time when other families are celebrating togetherness and my sympathies go to all who loved him.
Why tho is God to blame for physicians who prevaricated too long about treating his two conditions?

Jan said...

Oh Jill, how sorry I am to hear this very sad news. There really are no satisfactory answers right now are there? Please accept my sincere condolences to all the family.

Elizabethd said...

I'm so sorry to hear about this, Jill. It is the saddest time to lose someone. I'll be praying for you.

Rebecca said...

Oh girly...I'm sorry for you all. I guess none of us will ever understand the things God allows.

Now...I heard something once that helps me get through my own anger with God sometimes.

"God is big! He not only understands the anger you feel towards Him...but He also can take it!"

Love to you sweet lady. Thinking of you this day.

Love, Rebecca

Marydon said...

Jilly, I am so sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace as he sits at the feet of Jesus.

God is very understanding ...

Christmas prayers, hugs & wishes ~
TTFN ~ Marydon

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